Showing posts with label disability. Show all posts
Showing posts with label disability. Show all posts

28 Feb 2013

What Is In A Name?

Recently in the UK, there has been a lot of talk about gay marriage. I believe it is a purely an issue of semantics, not rights - either redefine the term 'civil partnership', or have the government tell a religion to redefine their doctrine. I think we know which is more sensible.

But this got me thinking about the terminology surrounding and mental 'abnormalities'. Mental breakdown, not right in the head, and weird are all used to describe someone who has either a temporary or a permanent chemical imbalance in the brain (I say imbalance, I mean a significant difference compared to one standard deviation of the population, 'normal'). Over recent years, there have been campaigns to try and rid people of preconceptions about mental illness. There was a campaign that told us not to 'not talk about it'. The most recent campaign is telling us "it's time to talk about mental illness". What about preexisting conditions?

I'm not suggesting a guide on Aspie spotting (though a fun game at universities and accounting departments), and it doesn't have to stick to autism spectrum disorders. We can't 'make autism history' (and don't want to). The government spends large amounts of money in ways not everyone agrees with - perhaps some could go towards a campaign to raise awareness, without asking people to diagnose everyone they know.

If people understand that terms can be offensive if used incorrectly, and that other terms are perfectly acceptable, maybe we can move past it as a society. Think #isitok of The Last Leg, which does a bit, but focuses mainly on physical disabilities. Of course, not everyone will listen, but some will, and wouldn't that be good?

1 Oct 2012

Do I Have A Learning Disability?

Is this even a question I am ready, or even able, to answer? I don't know. Any autistic syndrome is classified as a disability of varying degree. Do I feel differently towards or about the physically or mentally different? I'd like to think not. But when asked if I believe I have a disability, I pause every single time before saying no.

Yes, I have some social impairment. Yes, I find it more difficult to deal with and identify emotions and associated non-verbal cues. Yes, decisions can be a laborious task. Yes, I might need support in tasks  where others do not. But I still don't want to admit to a disability. Impairment maybe, but nothing else. Why?

I don't have a diagnosis. But that only deflects the question to why I don't try to get one. However true or untrue it may be, I believe there to be a stigma to disabilities, even if it is unconscious. Of course people knowing (or ideally being more generally aware of the prevalence of ASDs) more about Asperger Syndrome might make my and other people's interactions easier. I don't want to be treated differently for something I am, but something I've done. I don't want people to say "he did well, especially for someone like him". I know this is unlikely, but that the ever-present paranoia rearing it's head.

Am I prejudiced against people with mental disabilities? I hope I am not, and I act like I am not. I have treated the mentally handicapped people I've met differently, but I treat different NTs differently based on who they are. Am I prejudiced against myself? I treat myself harder than I treat other people.

Do I have an Autism Spectrum Disorder? Yes. Do I have a disability? Would you judge a fish by it's ability to do calculus?